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Walt Whitman to Harry Stafford, 27 January [1881]

Dear Hank—

Dear boy—your letter rec'd​ & read—Take it easy about the minister & the Ingersoll business3—the best answer you can make is to be quiet & good natured & even attentive & not get mad worth a cent—True religion (the most beautiful thing in the whole world, & the best part of any man's or woman's, or boy's character) consists in what one does square and kind & generous & honorable all days, all the time—& especially with his own folks & associates & with the poor & illiterate & in devout meditation, & silent thoughts of God, & death—& not at all in what he says, nor in Sunday or prayer meeting gas—My own opinion is that Ingersoll talks too much on his side—a good life, steady trying to do fair, & a sweet, tolerant liberal disposition, shines like the sun, tastes like the fresh air of a May morning, blooms like a perfect little flower by the road-side—& all the blowing, talking & powowing both sides amounts to little or nothing—Glad, dear boy, you had a good little visit, you & Mont,4 with me—I enjoyed it too—I am writing this up in the room—the sun shines, but sharp cold & the wind whistling—

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Notes

  • 1. This letter is endorsed: "1881." It is addressed: Harry Lamb Stafford | Kirkwood | Glendale | New Jersey. It is postmarked: Camden | Jan | 27 | N.J. [back]
  • 2. Whitman referred to this letter in his Commonplace Book (Charles E. Feinberg Collection of the Papers of Walt Whitman, 1839–1919, Library of Congress, Washington, D.C.). January 27 was on Thursday in 1881. [back]
  • 3. See the letter from Whitman to Harry Stafford of January 2, 1881. For discussion of this letter, see Ed Folsom, "Trying to Do Fair: Walt Whitman and the Good Life," Speakeasy 10 (March/April 2004), 14–18. [back]
  • 4. Whitman did not note in his Commonplace Book this visit with Harry and his brother. [back]
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