I wish I had written to you before, but first I could not, I wanted too
Now I feel anxious to write. I am gratefull for your being so thoughtful and unselfish in your own great grief, to write to me. I dont know what I should have done without,—your letters done me good.
I want to ask you dear brother to try to not greive . I do wish you would try to not. when dear Mother2 was here she said that sometimes loc_tb.00222.jpg she felt bad to think we all thought so much of her, for at most she could not be with us a great while
We all seem, Eddy3 and all, to depend upon you so much, And next to dear mother you are the very nearest to me.—
I know that just as long as you live you will miss dear Mother: and so shall I.
And you have always done every single thing possible for Mothers comfort, for when dear Mother was here she said you was one she could loc_tb.00223.jpg always rely on.
I shall expect you to stay here this Summer all the time you have from your business in Washington. it will not do for you to be there in the hot weather like you was last Summer.
I dont know what I should do if you was not comeing , its something to look forward to.
I only hope you will be comfortable and at home here, and I know you will
So make your arrangments to stop here all the time you have. the weather is as pleasant here as anywhere loc_tb.00221.jpg and I will like to have you here, it wont make a straws difference in my housework. I was so glad to hear that you was getting well.
I have been perfectly well the past Winter.—The trunk dear Mothers trunk is here, it is in your room. I have not yet opened it. I will in a few days and then I will write to you again. It came last Wednesday
Everything of dear Mothers is sacred,—I have not seen dear Mothers hair yet, and the flowers, I have stood dear Mothers death a great deal better that I would have thought I possibly could I have been working all the past week Dear Brother I cant write much this time, do be careful of yourself & do try to not grieve. I am pretty well, but I feel as if I could not bear any more I am sorry I have not written to before,
HanIt was very kind & thoughtful to send the $2, for the Express,4 I am really much oblidged , to Jeffy5 too,
I have meant to write to Jeffy & the dear little girls6
Correspondent:
Hannah Louisa Whitman Heyde
(1823–1908) was the fourth child of Walter and Louisa Whitman and Walt
Whitman's youngest sister. Hannah was named for her paternal grandmother, Hannah
Brush Whitman (1753–1834), and her mother, Louisa Van Velsor Whitman
(1795–1873). Although Walt Whitman had a close relationship with his
younger brother Jeff Whitman, Hannah was his favorite, most beloved sibling.
Until she married, Hannah lived at home with her parents and her brothers.
Educated at the Hempstead Academy, Hannah taught school in rural Long Island. On
March 23, 1852, Hannah married Charles Louis Heyde (ca. 1820–1892), a
landscape painter. It is possible that Walt introduced Hannah to Charles. In
August 1852 the Heydes departed for Vermont. The first decade of their marriage
was marked by constant moving from boarding houses to hotels, mostly in rural
Vermont, as Heyde sought out vantage points for his landscape paintings. In 1864
the Heydes settled in Burlington, purchasing a house on Pearl Street. After
Hannah's marriage and relocation to Vermont, Mother Whitman became Hannah's
faithful correspondent; Walt also kept in touch, sending letters and editions of
Leaves of Grass after publication. Hannah faced
several health crises during her marriage, partly due to the ongoing trauma of
emotional, verbal, and physical intimate partner violence that she experienced.
In the 1880s and 1890s Heyde increasingly had difficulty earning enough to cover
household expenses; in addition, he may have become an alcoholic. He repeatedly
asked Whitman for funds to cover their expenses. Whitman sent both Heyde and
Hannah small amounts of money. After Heyde died in 1892, Hannah remained in
Burlington, living in their house on Pearl Street until her death in 1908. For
more information, see Paula K. Garrett, "Whitman (Heyde), Hannah Louisa (d. 1908)," Walt
Whitman: An Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and Donald D. Kummings (New
York: Garland Publishing, 1998).