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Walt Whitman to Harry Stafford, 6 February 1889

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Am here yet, dear Hank, in the same place &c, after passing a good hard shaking (& not out of it yet)—but somewhat better—Have written & sent your folks at Glendale2 a longish letter wh' I want you to have, as it is meant as much for you3—I have finished all my books &c. and feel better.

Best love— Walt Whitman  loc_vm.00225.jpg

Correspondent:
Walt Whitman met the 18-year-old Harry Lamb Stafford (1858–1918) in 1876, beginning a relationship which was almost entirely overlooked by early Whitman scholarship, in part because Stafford's name appears nowhere in the first six volumes of Horace Traubel's With Walt Whitman in Camden—though it does appear frequently in the last three volumes, which were published only in the 1990s. Whitman occasionally referred to Stafford as "My (adopted) son" (as in a December 13, 1876, letter to John H. Johnston), but the relationship between the two also had a romantic, erotic charge to it. In 1883, Harry married Eva Westcott. For further discussion of Stafford, see Arnie Kantrowitz, "Stafford, Harry L. (b.1858)," Walt Whitman: An Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and Donald D. Kummings (New York: Garland Publishing, 1998).


Notes

  • 1. This postal card is addressed: Harry Lamb Stafford | RR Station | Marlton | New Jersey. It is postmarked: Camden, N.J. | Feb 6 | 8 PM | 89. [back]
  • 2. Glendale, New Jersey, was where Harry Stafford's parents, George and Susan Stafford, had moved after leaving their farm at Timber Creek, where Whitman had often visited. [back]
  • 3. Whitman is referring to his February 6, 1889, letter to Susan Stafford. [back]
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