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Glendale
Sep 21st 1889
Dear old friend
I wonder how you are geting on this hot weather! I did hope that we were not going
to have any very hot weather this summer but the past two or three days have been
very hot.
I have thought of you so much & wondered how you are geting on I should have
written to you before this had I not heard from you through pap & Debbie.1 & Herbert2 comes down once in A while & we hear from you
through him. I have been in Camden once or twice & should have called to see you
but thought perhaps my comeing would not be pleasant to you as we
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understood that you did not see only A
few of your friends.
I went to Marlton to day saw Harry & Eva3 they are all well.
Harry looks well he asked after you said he had called once or twice at your place
some time A go, but couldnot see you
I suppose you know that Gomery Stafford4 has sold the old place
at Kirkwood5 every thing is changed there now it's all laid out in Building lots
& Avenues & the old pond has become quite A pleasure resort. one cant go
ther now without meeting hundreds of people
how much we should like to see you with us once again but suppose that can never be.
Its A pleasure to know that you are comfortable—am glad to know that
Mrs D6 & the nurse7 are kind I hope you will
write to us something & tell us how you are geting on
with much love v
S M Stafford
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Correspondent:
Susan M. Lamb Stafford
(1833–1910) was the mother of Harry Stafford (1858–1918), who, in
1876, became a close friend of Whitman while working at the printing office of
the Camden New Republic. Whitman regularly visited the
Staffords at their family farm near Kirkwood, New Jersey. Whitman enjoyed the
atmosphere and tranquility that the farm provided and would often stay for weeks
at a time (see David G. Miller, "Stafford, George and Susan M.," Walt Whitman: An
Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and Donald D. Kummings [New York:
Garland Publishing, 1998], 685).
Notes
- 1. Deborah Stafford Browning
(1860–1945) was Susan and George Stafford's daughter. [back]
- 2. Herbert Harlakenden Gilchrist
(1857–1914), son of Alexander and Anne Gilchrist, was an English painter
and editor of Anne Gilchrist: Her Life and Writings
(London: T. Fisher Unwin, 1887). For more information, see Marion Walker Alcaro,
"Gilchrist, Herbert Harlakenden (1857–1914)," Walt Whitman: An Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and Donald D.
Kummings (New York: Garland Publishing, 1998). [back]
- 3. Walt Whitman met the 18-year-old Harry Lamb Stafford
(1858–1918) in 1876, beginning a relationship which was almost entirely
overlooked by early Whitman scholarship, in part because Stafford's name appears
nowhere in the first six volumes of Horace Traubel's With Walt
Whitman in Camden—though it does appear frequently in the last
three volumes, which were published only in the 1990s. Whitman occasionally
referred to Stafford as "My (adopted) son" (as in a December 13, 1876, letter to John H. Johnston), but the relationship
between the two also had a romantic, erotic charge to it. In 1883, Harry married
Eva Westcott. For further discussion of Stafford, see Arnie Kantrowitz, "Stafford, Harry L. (b.1858)," Walt Whitman: An
Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and Donald D. Kummings (New York:
Garland Publishing, 1998). [back]
- 4. "Gomery" is Montgomery Stafford
(1862–1925), one of Susan Stafford's sons. [back]
- 5. Whitman often visited the
Stafford family at their farm at Timber Creek in Laurel Springs, New Jersey; in
the 1880s, they sold the farm and moved to nearby Glendale. [back]
- 6. Mary Oakes Davis (1837 or
1838–1908) was Whitman's housekeeper. For more, see Carol J. Singley,
"Davis, Mary Oakes (1837 or 1838–1908)," Walt
Whitman: An Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and Donald D. Kummings (New
York: Garland Publishing, 1998). [back]
- 7. Edward "Ned" Wilkins
(1865–1936) was one of Whitman's nurses during his Camden years; he was
sent to Camden from London, Ontario, by Dr. Richard M. Bucke, and he began
caring for Whitman on November 5, 1888. He stayed for a year before returning to
Canada to attend the Ontario Veterinary School. Wilkins graduated on March 24,
1893, and then he returned to the United States to commence his practice in
Alexandria, Indiana. For more information, see Bert A. Thompson, "Edward
Wilkins: Male Nurse to Walt Whitman," Walt Whitman Review
15 (September 1969), 194–195. [back]