If all the talks of you which are heard in our family were telephoned to your ear, you would have daily communications from the house of Johnston.
"Uncle Walt would enjoy this;" "I wish Uncle Walt could hear that;" "If Uncle Walt were only here," are frequent exclamations. Indeed loc.02430.002.jpgyou have had, since the sad event of thirteen years ago,2 (does it seem so long?) a central place in the heart of the home and it was there I met and welcomed you.
Now another change is about to take place: (and who knows whether life or death is more momentous?) The marriage of Grace.3
You know how lovely she is in voice and feature: but you cannot know how loc.02430.003.jpgevery best quality of her parents is mingled into a perfect whole. To me, her second mother, (by law, her first in devotion) she has always been a daughter indeed! Nothing could surpass the filial love she has given me: the confidence in my judgment: the loving obedience to every requirement. The aid, the encoureagement, the companionship she has given me since reaching the level of womanhood.
It is not easy for me to give this to a man: nor easy loc.02430.004.jpgfor her to turn her face away from the sweet care-free maidenhood: leave the dear sheltered home—next the companionship of sisters: and take all at once wife-hood mother-hood,—the burden of a wealth-sustaining matron!
For you have doubtless heard that the man she is to marry has both children and money: (burdens or blessings as we make them.) Fortunately—though without these qualities he would not have gained his4
loc.02430.005.jpg see notes | June 6 | 1889 loc.02430.006.jpgCorrespondent:
Alma Calder Johnston
(1843–1917) was an author and the founder of a charity called the Little
Mothers' Aid Society. The charity funded trips to Pelham Bay Park on Hunter's
Island for young girls who served as the primary caregivers for their siblings
while their parents worked. Johnston wrote for the New York
Tribune and Harper's Weekly ("[Obituary for Alma
Calder Johnston]," in "New York Notes," The Jewelers'
Circular-Weekly [May 9, 1917], 85). Her "Personal Memories of Walt
Whitman" was published in The Bookman 46 (December 1917),
404–413. She was the second wife of the jeweler John H. Johnston, and her
family owned a home and property in Equinunk, Pennsylvania. For more on the
Johnstons, see Susan L. Roberson, "Johnston, John H. (1837–1919) and Alma Calder" (Walt Whitman: An Encyclopedia, ed. J.R. LeMaster and
Donald D. Kummings (New York: Garland Publishing, 1998).